Live again Sunday, September 13 • 4:00 PM ET / 1:00 PM PT

How to Meet the Man of Your Dreams Without Wasting Years on the Wrong Relationship

Why smart, successful women can know exactly what they want in love, and still keep ending up with men who cannot give it to them.

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Iris Benrubi, psychotherapist and founder of Forever Love Coaching

This is not a recording

So many women came to this masterclass, and so many more wrote afterwards to say they had missed it. So Iris is doing something she had not planned to do. She is teaching the whole thing again, live, and taking your questions in the room.

Why Has This One Part of Your Life Stayed So Hard?

You have built a career, raised a family, handled heartbreak and created a life you are proud of. When something is not working, you usually figure it out. Except, somehow, when it comes to love.

  • 1 Why love can stay out of reach for women who are intelligent, self-aware and successful, and who have already done a great deal of work on themselves
  • 2 The real reason this keeps happening, which is almost never the reason you have been telling yourself
  • 3 Why trying harder is not the answer, and why the very thing that makes you succeed everywhere else can quietly work against you in love
  • 4 What is shaping who you choose, who you are drawn to, and what you are willing to tolerate
  • 5 Which good men you may be overlooking completely, without ever realising you are doing it
  • 6 How to look at your love life through an entirely different lens, so your relationship history finally makes sense

"Iris, you kicked my butt in the most essential way and I really needed it. I got the reinforcement that what I had been settling for was not good enough. I am now committed to having only the most extraordinary relationship going forward."

Mona H.

Iris Benrubi

Psychotherapist and Founder of Forever Love Coaching

Iris has spent decades helping mature women date with clarity and confidence. She shows women how to feel desired, adored and at ease, without chasing, settling, or shrinking themselves to fit the wrong man.

On Sunday she teaches this live again, and helps you look at your love life through an entirely different lens, so you can understand your relationship history in a way that finally makes sense.

Iris Benrubi

Frequently Asked Questions

No. Iris is teaching the whole thing again, live, on Sunday September 13. She will be in the room with you and taking questions.

Yes. The September 13 live encore is a separate event. Please register using the form on this page so you receive its Zoom link and reminders.

Yes. This masterclass is completely free. It is Iris's gift to help you understand what has been getting in the way of the relationship you want.

About 60 minutes, starting at 4:00 PM ET and 1:00 PM PT on Sunday September 13.

This masterclass is written for women who have already tried a great deal. Iris looks at why the effort itself has not produced the result, which is a different question from what most books and podcasts are answering.

If You Have a Lot of Love to Give and Nowhere for It to Land

Come spend this hour with Iris on Sunday afternoon. Once you understand what has actually been getting in the way, your whole experience of dating and relationships can begin to look very different.

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