"I’ve learned so much, more than I thought I would, In the past I would have worried about what do they want, am I good enough, trying to prove that I’m good enough, I think that it’s a big deal to learn that I’m buying. To feel I’m enough, I am prize, I’m independent, I don’t need a man, I don’t need a man to survive, I need a man to thrive, awful dating in past, not intelligent enough, but now meeting great men, changed with how I date online, I’m comfortable that I’m ok and for the first time I’ve gotten responses and likes from men who are more intelligent, that was a huge difference for me" - Deb L (now living with her soulmate)